momom: i have to say something i have seen so many ppl break up over the smallest things. so he talked to a girl other than you. so he talked to his old girlfriend. so he talked to the one you call your enemy. get over it. so she has funny looking toes. or her eyes can cross. so she can whistle. so she feels emotion. so she feels pain. so she she feels the spirit. if these things bother you, then you will never have an everlasting marriage. so he is of some other faith. so she is of some other race. so you both have mental health issues. these are things that love forgives, overlooks, allows. if that is hard to swallow, look at how the Bride of The Savior acts. then see how God says I still love you and you are still My Bride. God keeps us even though we sin against God and others. we should follow in The Savior's foot steps in all ways. We should also follow His teachings. Yeshua/Jesus said that we should hate the sin and love the sinner. When He turned tables He kept from hurting a human. He chastened them and chased them and took away their sin but kept them whole. He welcomes them to His Home still today. He still loves them and says be My Bride. I know you got your feelings hurt, but you will get your feelings hurt. Yeshua gets His feeling hurt every millisecond of everyday of every era. are you perfect? have you always managed to keep from hurting the feelings of others? do your toes seem perfect? are you of the same creed as they are? stop sending them through Hell/Gen on earth. my neighbor and her household made me think and think on these things. i had to get it off my chest. she lives with a current and ex boyfriend. talk about drama there but that's only part of it. she is so touchy. he says something sweet and she thinks he means it in a mean way. or he asks her if she might be wrong about her health and she throws a tantrum. he wants to go to the hospital and she says he must stay home bcs they are out of gas when clearly he can call medcaide and get a ride to and from. i know there are ppl on fb who are like this too. and when i see it, i want to cry out. my husband, bless his heart, is far from perfect, but i work hard to see the good in him even when he is being ugly. its so hard to do that sometimes. but mama taught me that by hanging a cross stitch in her hall way at the old house. it said it is easy to find evil in the world... the sentence ended with three dots. the saying says it takes hard work to find the good in this world. i learned that every time i felt upset it was bcs i was seeing the evil, so right when i grasped that i would start to look for the good in it and that would change how i felt. please spread this around facebook so that everyone gets a chance to see it and hopefully think about it. ilu all. i want you to be happy. shalom