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my neighbor is having her grandchild over for the week. today someone scolded the little girl. sissy was quick to put a stop to that. the offender told sissy that sissy had to leave. they were at church. i may give observations but i never tell someone outright how to raise a kid nor do i tell a child how to behave but for when im the parent or babysitter. im very strict and overprotective. i avoid hitting my children as much as i think i can. when i do spank it is according to rules i set for myself. if the child did something life-threatening like run out in the street it is ten swats on the but using my own hand. if i use something else, i have no way of knowing how hard im hitting and i may leave a mark. the first thing i do when a child needs chastisement, is talk to them calmly. second it is yelling at them. third is the corner and a serious talk. fourth is determined by how bad they have been. usually it is the corner and a lecture, but sometimes it is three swats by my own hand without the use of a "paddle" and a talk. these rules must always be followed. i never hit my kids with anything outside my own hand. i learned growing up that paddles and other things used to hit often left a mark or worse. i had many growing up. that was why the state eventually took me. sorry mom its the truth and i got file to back that up. parent training teaches the hitting is out of the question. this woman here seems to have the idea. when your child is throwing a fit and you hold them against their will to keep them from damaging themselves or others or property then get accused of kidnapping them. wow is all i got to say. we all need to watch how we talk to each other. we are to uplift each other. tearing down is evil
my neighbor is having her grandchild over for the week. today someone scolded the little girl. sissy was quick to put a stop to that. the offender told sissy that sissy had to leave. they were at church. i may give observations but i never tell someone outright how to raise a kid nor do i tell a child how to behave but for when im the parent or babysitter. im very strict and overprotective. i avoid hitting my children as much as i think i can. when i do spank it is according to rules i set for myself. if the child did something life-threatening like run out in the street it is ten swats on the but using my own hand. if i use something else, i have no way of knowing how hard im hitting and i may leave a mark. the first thing i do when a child needs chastisement, is talk to them calmly. second it is yelling at them. third is the corner and a serious talk. fourth is determined by how bad they have been. usually it is the corner and a lecture, but sometimes it is three swats by my own hand without the use of a "paddle" and a talk. these rules must always be followed. i never hit my kids with anything outside my own hand. i learned growing up that paddles and other things used to hit often left a mark or worse. i had many growing up. that was why the state eventually took me. sorry mom its the truth and i got file to back that up. parent training teaches the hitting is out of the question. this woman here seems to have the idea. when your child is throwing a fit and you hold them against their will to keep them from damaging themselves or others or property then get accused of kidnapping them. wow is all i got to say. we all need to watch how we talk to each other. we are to uplift each other. tearing down is evil
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